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访谈录 2010-05-22&05-26 解读剩女现象-7

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The sexes have two difference skill sets. You have a skill set that we don't have. So you gotta be slick about this, ladies. If you wanna get conversations from your men, you got to use your skill set, that is a way to get your man to talk. But it's like Hill said, it's the way you go about it. You can't sit a man down and go can we talk. Because we don't want to talk, we don't ever want to talk, because we don't, we don't , first of all, we don't where it is going. We don't know what is for the lead to. And the first thing we do is-what have I done? And we start rolling to the roller dicks trying to cover our tracks even we ain't done nothing, 'cause we know you’re slick, and you’d found some. So, you use your skill set. Women have a skill set, a skill set of be a sexy, you are sensuous1, you are nurturing2 and you are communicated. Why you are all keep fighting what you got? If God gives it to you, use it!

But you, then you say we are manipulative.

Right, are they manipulative?

I think, man want to talk our woman, I see, I think…

No, we don't.

Listen, we can disagree, we can disagree.

We got the divide in the faction3.

Steve,Steve。

So, what is it this? Steve, uh, Jimi.

Look, look, Steve, hold on a second, you and I can agree, you and I can disagree about the solutions to this same problem, what I am going to suggest…Here is I am gonna say, I think man do want to talk, some men do wanna talk, and I think that they want to talk without judgement.They wanna able to say exactly what's on their mind, and what's on their heart.

Let's talk about the numbers, let’s talk about possibly even the younger generation. Are men being taught through video, through music, through rap, through hip-pop, through TV, through movies that they gotta be players, they gotta be gangsters4 and they are learning nothing about relationships.

Yes! Misinformation. Listen, listen, I’ve said, I say it all the time, that I believe my business, the entertainment business has done more to misleading, decimate the self-esteem of us and our young people in virtually any other industry, and that's real.

It is, this is the reality of the situation, kids watch TV, they have iPhones, they have, they are more technologically5 advanced than we are.

But they got parents too.

Yes, we are parents, we ain't take it away, Jimi, but I am just saying, this is, this is what it is. Everybody listens to Steve Harvey on the radio, they go out, they watch these films. It is up to us as parents to be role models and explain to them, uh, the other side, but they’re gonna look these people as role model.

One of the problems that you have is that we, men in my age are responsible for what you see in music today, what you see in videos today. We forgot to teach, just a few simple things, you know, the business of manhood is being cool, cool in our styles, so we replace cool with hot now. Nobody smiles on our albumn no more, everybody hot now. We used to dress for women. We don't dress for women no more, we dress for each other. Women don't care none about your boots being on tag, your sagging6, abandon on your hair, you got only a six-egg-T-SHIRT, and you wear a medium, women don't like none of that, women don't want to see your drawers when you walk down the street. But because, but because it looks good to our hormone7, that’s what we do and then we forgot to teach our young boys how to talk to women. So now, you don't know how to talk to girl, now your songs ain’t about love no more.

Our song now is about, move be get out of the way, get out of the way,(snap or slip the rapid nail)beaches in different area code, smack8 that, give me that. You know, it’s all in that. because we, our fault. This is man. We’ve allowed this, we are the only race of people who degrade our woman in our music. We are the ones. This is us. Until like Hill said, until we start checking one another, and we gotta get busy right quick. We, you won’t get better man, unless we start producing better man

Are we losing too many good men to women of other races?

You know, it is very interesting.

It's a woman about the races to man, it’s a little bit…

But if we are talking about, if we are talking about to other races, it’s very interesting ,because you know, I feel as black woman, you know, and I have men tell me this, when I say, you know, we are at the clubs. I’ve been raised I am old fashion. You are at the club, you know, take your butt9 all over there and be up in man's faces. You know I wanna wait for the men to come over and say "hey, how are you doing?”, but then you have other woman who ran up to the man and they treat them like, and I am saying I am black woman, and they are treated like they are adored, but if I do that, I got a name for myself. Because I run it up in your face, I don't know any black women, that could go out here and make a sex tape and get a cupcake line, a clogging10 line, a perfume line and be toddled11 round ON THE ARM, ON THE ARM of an ethnic12 like this is my girl because you know, when we do that kind, we call super haired. We call, you know, and so when I see this kind of stuff, I’m going, wow, I am a good woman here, I am trying to raise a good black man, a boy to be a good black man. But I don't feel like I am on put on the pedestal like the other women.

Does that upset you that so many black men are married to, or dating to white women?

If you find…It doesn't upset me. If you with a woman that loves you, that is gonna treat you like you need to be treated. And she is of anther race, and then God bless you. But if you are saying but I meet a black man who go I don't wanna date, I date out the race, because you, all black women are too loud! So you put this, you make us as wide sward, you call this wide sward then hell black women are. I guess god done wrong by black men, but I’m not sitting here and go all black man is ass13 so I’m not go and forget all your, I don't do that! I go "no, there is some good black men out there”, but when you wanna date other races exclusive to us, yeah, then I get really upset.

Absolutely. Absolutely.

Just like they said, black women are the most loyal, that black men are the most likely to date outside their race and black women are the least likely to date outside their race. (We, yeah)Is it time for black women to open the door to possibility of dating outside their race?

Based on the numbers, they are 1.8 million more of us than there are black men. You go down the number of men that are homosexual, so they don't want women at all; you have men who are already taken in a relationship with a woman married or have a boyfriend. (all my curse is in prison)yeah~you know, there are those that are in prison, and then there those that date outside of our race like Sherri said, they want nothing to do with black women.

oNo.1, I think this discussion is about the issue is real, but it is kind of like a destruction, because at the end of the date, the vast majority, he knows this number, 90% of black men who get married, they marry black women. And then if we can look to some high profile black men in the media etc, and we act like this rampant14 prominent is much worse than it really is.

When you look and you see a black man who become successful, and then you see the marriage outside the race, and you look at the number of black man who are really successful, there are a number appears higher in the high success category, you must admit that, you have to look in and go, okay, because if it is an entertainer or an athlete or what, rappers can’t do it. That’s, that's the end of you’re here part career. That will keep it real fame that just went out of the window. That is your fame. But I gotta say it to you though too, just from my personal experience on people I know, those that just exclusively date out of the race, cater15 your son and so you put your men leave, you wouldn't want them know it. That is a character flaw in this person that you don't even need to introduce into your life.
 


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1 sensuous pzcwc     
adj.激发美感的;感官的,感觉上的
参考例句:
  • Don't get the idea that value of music is commensurate with its sensuous appeal.不要以为音乐的价值与其美的感染力相等。
  • The flowers that wreathed his parlor stifled him with their sensuous perfume.包围著客厅的花以其刺激人的香味使他窒息。
2 nurturing d35e8f9c6b6b0f1c54ced7de730a6241     
养育( nurture的现在分词 ); 培育; 滋长; 助长
参考例句:
  • These delicate plants need careful nurturing. 这些幼嫩的植物需要精心培育。
  • The modern conservatory is not an environment for nurturing plants. 这个现代化温室的环境不适合培育植物。
3 faction l7ny7     
n.宗派,小集团;派别;派系斗争
参考例句:
  • Faction and self-interest appear to be the norm.派系之争和自私自利看来非常普遍。
  • I now understood clearly that I was caught between the king and the Bunam's faction.我现在完全明白自己已陷入困境,在国王与布纳姆集团之间左右为难。
4 gangsters ba17561e907047df78d78510bfbc2b09     
匪徒,歹徒( gangster的名词复数 )
参考例句:
  • The gangsters offered him a sum equivalent to a whole year's earnings. 歹徒提出要给他一笔相当于他一年收入的钱。
  • One of the gangsters was caught by the police. 歹徒之一被警察逮捕。
5 technologically WqpwY     
ad.技术上地
参考例句:
  • Shanghai is a technologically advanced city. 上海是中国的一个技术先进的城市。
  • Many senior managers are technologically illiterate. 许多高级经理都对技术知之甚少。
6 sagging 2cd7acc35feffadbb3241d569f4364b2     
下垂[沉,陷],松垂,垂度
参考例句:
  • The morale of the enemy troops is continuously sagging. 敌军的士气不断低落。
  • We are sagging south. 我们的船正离开航线向南漂流。
7 hormone uyky3     
n.荷尔蒙,激素,内分泌
参考例句:
  • Hormone implants are used as growth boosters.激素植入物被用作生长辅助剂。
  • This hormone interacts closely with other hormones in the body.这种荷尔蒙与体內其他荷尔蒙紧密地相互作用。
8 smack XEqzV     
vt.拍,打,掴;咂嘴;vi.含有…意味;n.拍
参考例句:
  • She gave him a smack on the face.她打了他一个嘴巴。
  • I gave the fly a smack with the magazine.我用杂志拍了一下苍蝇。
9 butt uSjyM     
n.笑柄;烟蒂;枪托;臀部;v.用头撞或顶
参考例句:
  • The water butt catches the overflow from this pipe.大水桶盛接管子里流出的东西。
  • He was the butt of their jokes.他是他们的笑柄。
10 clogging abee9378633336a938e105f48e04ae0c     
堵塞,闭合
参考例句:
  • This process suffers mainly from clogging the membrane. 这种过程的主要问题是滤膜的堵塞。
  • And you know that eyewitness that's been clogging up the airwaves? 你知道那个充斥着电视广播的目击证人?
11 toddled abf9fa74807bbedbdec71330dd38c149     
v.(幼儿等)东倒西歪地走( toddle的过去式和过去分词 );蹒跚行走;溜达;散步
参考例句:
  • It's late — it's time you toddled off to bed. 不早了—你该去睡觉了。 来自《简明英汉词典》
  • Her two-year-old son toddled into the room. 她的两岁的儿子摇摇摆摆地走进屋里。 来自辞典例句
12 ethnic jiAz3     
adj.人种的,种族的,异教徒的
参考例句:
  • This music would sound more ethnic if you played it in steel drums.如果你用钢鼓演奏,这首乐曲将更具民族特色。
  • The plan is likely only to aggravate ethnic frictions.这一方案很有可能只会加剧种族冲突。
13 ass qvyzK     
n.驴;傻瓜,蠢笨的人
参考例句:
  • He is not an ass as they make him.他不象大家猜想的那样笨。
  • An ass endures his burden but not more than his burden.驴能负重但不能超过它能力所负担的。
14 rampant LAuzm     
adj.(植物)蔓生的;狂暴的,无约束的
参考例句:
  • Sickness was rampant in the area.该地区疾病蔓延。
  • You cannot allow children to rampant through the museum.你不能任由小孩子在博物馆里乱跑。
15 cater ickyJ     
vi.(for/to)满足,迎合;(for)提供饮食及服务
参考例句:
  • I expect he will be able to cater for your particular needs.我预计他能满足你的特殊需要。
  • Most schools cater for children of different abilities.大多数学校能够满足具有不同天资的儿童的需要。
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