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男人为什么爱撒谎?

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My husband does not lie to me. Most men lie, but my husband doesn't lie.

Of course, everybody lies.

Robi Ludwing is a psychotherapist. Steve Santagati is with Men's Journal. Good morning to both of you.

Good morning.

Ok, let's start this off. Everybody lies, (that's true)men, men and women.(Actually...) Is there any proof that women lie less than men?

No, I haven't seen it; in fact, women and lie, probably, women and men probably lie at the same amount. But women and men lie about different things. So when women lie, it's usually more complimentary1 or altruistic2, the white lies, they are kind of nice to make you feel better (you're lovely to make this way according to the studies. That's right.

Women are only giving white lies according to the website when you did at home?

Wow. Santagati is often winning.

No, it's just...

And men, I have got it already, I'm not even winning myself. And men lie about self-aggrandizing themselves.

So,in any event, she's outrageous3 here.

What will men ( do) to take care of ourselves?

We, so lying started as a servile technique and it went a little crazy, men, a lot of time, will lie because when we tell women the truth, they go nuts.

So it's that Jack4 Nickelson(a famous actor)--you can't handle the truth.(Well, they can handle it...)

They do avoid it, but it's not only the women. Men lie to other men. They lie about sex, they lie about how much they made, they lie to make themselves feel better. Lying is a(This, all right.) way to increase one's self-esteem.

She is making a scene a lot worse than what we really are. We lie because men, our whole thing, is to be powerful. And we don't wanna seem vulnerable; and we don't wanna seem weak. So if we lie a little, you know.

And also.....

Was it, was it, when it comes to the man and woman thing,(Yeah.) is it because men don't like confrontation5, we can't say we tell this, this, this white lie, for example, did this jeans make me look fat?

Right, exactly. (Never tells truth.)And that's a great, and that's a great point. Sometimes lies are not deliberate, they are spontaneous. So a man feels like he's being put on the spot in the moment and he comes up with something that won't hurt another person's feeling. So it's not all ill-intended.

Not rightly so, you showed it as there is a time, there is a time to lie, and there is a time to tell the truth.

When is it the time to lie, Steve?

When, when the truth, when the truth is either going to be unproductive, ur,destructive or just doesn't really matter for the situation whatever it might be the time.

And there are different kinds of lies I mean.....

I am gonna say is it ok, are there times when it's ok to lie because look, I've got kids and I tell them it's not ok to lie, (Right. Right.) but where we do and say two different things.

Right, you know, white lies you don't wanna get yourself in trouble. Obviously, you don't want hurting another person's feeling. But if folk, if you are chronically6 lying about very important things, then it interferes7 with having trust in a relationship. And without trust you can't have a good relationship. It interferes with the foundation.

But now I see you talk about, when you are seeing a woman(Right.) that you really like and you start off telling the truth.

That's right.

Something happenes.

When you start telling the truth, and all of a sudden, the way we should response to. It's so dramatic and it adds so much aggravation8 of the relationship. She started building a liar9. Women can build liars10 by the way when they react. Let's say for example I tell you the truth and you don't like the truth.

Right,Like in the green room.

Think. Like in the green room.

Think, breathe and talk to me like an adult and I will tell you the truth every single time. But If I see that you are acting11 crazy, I wanna be like en, en,a lie is easier.

I actually, I am in agreement with Steve. You know, if you urh,pretend a little bit(all right, I am not a liar ). ...I might be lying. But If you basically can handle,and let a person know listen, I am open to hearing what you have to say. Then you are more likely hear the truth from somebody who isn't inclined to be honest that our people, no matter how you react or what you do,'(they are gonna lie to you) they just, they just want to lie because they can't deal with reality.

And I think the big thing is to tell the truth when it's really important, and you'll know that there is a guy cause you feel really noxious12 right before you can tell the truth.(God) And you know what, and just going to women,

Tell me you want to date him now? Yeah. No, no, no.

Women are stronger than we give them credit for a lot of time. They don't always react to the truth in such a crazy way.

So start off honest.(start off honest) but it doesn't work, then lie.(then lie)

Ok. There you go.no, We are just kidding. We're Kidding. We have to always be honest.

That's right.

That's always.

And I am, I am honest when I have to tell you we've got to go.

Ok.

That's right, Al.

Thank you.

And by the way, it's nice to see you all guys and thanks a lot.


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1 complimentary opqzw     
adj.赠送的,免费的,赞美的,恭维的
参考例句:
  • She made some highly complimentary remarks about their school.她对他们的学校给予高度的评价。
  • The supermarket operates a complimentary shuttle service.这家超市提供免费购物班车。
2 altruistic hzuzA6     
adj.无私的,为他人着想的
参考例句:
  • It is superficial to be altruistic without feeling compassion.无慈悲之心却说利他,是为表面。
  • Altruistic spirit should be cultivated by us vigorously.利他的精神是我们应该努力培养的。
3 outrageous MvFyH     
adj.无理的,令人不能容忍的
参考例句:
  • Her outrageous behaviour at the party offended everyone.她在聚会上的无礼行为触怒了每一个人。
  • Charges for local telephone calls are particularly outrageous.本地电话资费贵得出奇。
4 jack 53Hxp     
n.插座,千斤顶,男人;v.抬起,提醒,扛举;n.(Jake)杰克
参考例句:
  • I am looking for the headphone jack.我正在找寻头戴式耳机插孔。
  • He lifted the car with a jack to change the flat tyre.他用千斤顶把车顶起来换下瘪轮胎。
5 confrontation xYHy7     
n.对抗,对峙,冲突
参考例句:
  • We can't risk another confrontation with the union.我们不能冒再次同工会对抗的危险。
  • After years of confrontation,they finally have achieved a modus vivendi.在对抗很长时间后,他们最后达成安宁生存的非正式协议。
6 chronically yVsyi     
ad.长期地
参考例句:
  • Similarly, any pigment nevus that is chronically irritated should be excised. 同样,凡是经常受慢性刺激的各种色素痣切勿予以切除。
  • People chronically exposed to chlorine develop some degree of tolerance. 人长期接触氯气可以产生某种程度的耐受性。
7 interferes ab8163b252fe52454ada963fa857f890     
vi. 妨碍,冲突,干涉
参考例句:
  • The noise interferes with my work. 这噪音妨碍我的工作。
  • That interferes with my plan. 那干扰了我的计划。
8 aggravation PKYyD     
n.烦恼,恼火
参考例句:
  • She stirred in aggravation as she said this. 她说这句话,激动得过分。
  • Can't stand the aggravation, all day I get aggravation. You know how it is." 我整天都碰到令人发火的事,你可想而知这是什么滋味。” 来自教父部分
9 liar V1ixD     
n.说谎的人
参考例句:
  • I know you for a thief and a liar!我算认识你了,一个又偷又骗的家伙!
  • She was wrongly labelled a liar.她被错误地扣上说谎者的帽子。
10 liars ba6a2311efe2dc9a6d844c9711cd0fff     
说谎者( liar的名词复数 )
参考例句:
  • The greatest liars talk most of themselves. 最爱自吹自擂的人是最大的说谎者。
  • Honest boys despise lies and liars. 诚实的孩子鄙视谎言和说谎者。
11 acting czRzoc     
n.演戏,行为,假装;adj.代理的,临时的,演出用的
参考例句:
  • Ignore her,she's just acting.别理她,她只是假装的。
  • During the seventies,her acting career was in eclipse.在七十年代,她的表演生涯黯然失色。
12 noxious zHOxB     
adj.有害的,有毒的;使道德败坏的,讨厌的
参考例句:
  • Heavy industry pollutes our rivers with noxious chemicals.重工业产生的有毒化学品会污染我们的河流。
  • Many household products give off noxious fumes.很多家用产品散发有害气体。
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