豆知识 2010-04-11&04-17 用行动说爱你

 Hi I'm Donna Barnes. I'm a life and dating coach, the owner of NY Dating Coach here in New York City.

 

In this clip¹ we'll talk about ways to say I love you. So, you know, for some people it's really easy to just verbally² say it. For other people, it’s not so much. So, if you're one of those people that it's hard to say it, if you can say it, it's gonna mean so much more.

 

But if you're the kind of person that, you know, can't, that says it all the time, and go out your way and find really very interesting ways to say it.

 

Of course, sending flowers is still very receptive, and a lot of girls really love that. But, you know, think outside the box. You know, your actions that show love are much more valuable to the other person than just your words. So, you know, show them. If there's something that they really like, or that they've really been wanting to do, try to make that happen for them.

 

If they have something that they have an interested in, you know, or they mention casually³, oh I'd like to see that play, get them tickets. Really try to make them happy and that will really show your love most.

 

This is Donna Barnes, from New York City.

1 clip   

n.夹子，别针，弹夹，片断；vt.夹住，修剪

参考例句：

• May I clip out the report on my performance?我能把报道我的文章剪下来吗？
• She fastened the papers together with a paper clip.她用曲别针把文件别在一起。

2 verbally   

ad.用文字地；口头上

参考例句：

• The company had received complaints both verbally and in writing. 这家公司收到了口头和书面的投诉。
• He verbally laced into his son for his misbehaviour. 他严厉斥责儿子的行为不端。

3 casually   

adv.漠不关心地，无动于衷地，不负责任地

参考例句：

• She remarked casually that she was changing her job.她当时漫不经心地说要换工作。
• I casually mentioned that I might be interested in working abroad.我不经意地提到我可能会对出国工作感兴趣。