美国女人为何对亚洲女人怀有成见？

 美国女人为何对亚洲女人怀有成见？

Any man who has dated Asian girls who live in the United States, has witnessed the wrath¹, jealously and prejudice of American women towards Asian girls.

The stereotypical² has some merit: American women can’t compete against the Asians sexuality, American women feel threatened and some American women simply think Asians are stealing their men. These all bear some truth.

If we frequent a typical American club, I have had my dates threaten by American women in the restroom. In time, Asian clubs sprung up in the United States. At an Asian club, American women are welcome. I have never seen an American lady being threatened by Asians in a typical Asian club. It just isn’t their nature. The crowds in these clubs are usually Asian girls and American men.

They met in the Philippines, got married, and came to the United States with their military husband. Consequently, you’ll meet Asian girls in clubs who are married. If you mingle³ with Asian girls that frequent the clubs for any length of time, you will eventually meet ladies who are unfaithful.

This unfaithfulness is how Filipina girls are branded as whores by American women. This doesn’t carry the same stigma⁴ for American women who may do the same. Hypocrisy⁵ is always evident when behaviors of the two cultures are compared.

Asian dating sites have sprung up all over the internet. Some of these sites try to exploit the Asians sexuality. However, there are many Asian girls who want to meet a sincere gentleman for a relationship.

As attractive as Asian girls may be, American men are also captivated by the Asians behavior towards men. A man’s dream of having a wife who wants to please him, appreciates his love and treasures his efforts in making a home seems to have been found by American men in the Asian culture.

You’ll hear American men call these values traditional values because at one time these were the values that held the American family together.

In turn, these men are happy, want to provide for their wife and have no desire to look elsewhere for this appreciation⁶.

It’s chemistry that once prevailed many years ago in the United States and has been lost in the myriad⁷ of women rights in American society.

Why do Filipina women want to marry a foreigner from another country? I’m not going to argue the fact that these ladies want a better life. It’s probably true.

I will argue that most women, no matter the country, want to marry in to a better life. Again, it is the hypocrisy of which you are that makes a behavior negative or not. Most women, in the United States, need to look in a mirror before judging ladies from other cultures. Besides wanting a better life, most Asian ladies want better treatment.

Here in the United States, most men come to expect a lady isn’t required to serve him, to want to please him, and love him for who he is. When an Asian girl does, his appreciation is certain.

For an Asian lady, the man doesn’t have to be super rich or look like a movie star, just treat her well and show his love. It’s a merry-go-round with respect and love as its focal point. She wants to please him, he loves her for pleasing him, and she loves him for showing he appreciates her love and so on.

All the above words, statements and my observations have their exceptions. There is no doubt; there are bad men in every country. There is no doubt that some women only are in it for the money or to get a free pass to the United States.

If a few instances define the standards, then just getting a marriage license⁸ in the United States should have a warning imprinted⁹ in gold. No matter if a couple met through the internet or at the neighborhood church, you have your share of scandals and mistreatment.

The last culture of experts that needs to be giving advice about how to meet and marry a woman is the United States “is there any other country whose divorce rate is higher?

The Philippines and Far Eastern countries do not condone¹⁰ online dating sites. For that matter, it is against the law. I’m not going to quote their law here, but it has to do with moral issues. Again hypocrisy!

I started this article to comment on why a lot of American women despise Asian girls. Not all American women, but a lot. But the discrimination doesn’t stop there. It is evident in the media, politics and indeed in their own country.

The people, who are forgotten, are the couples themselves. Why not just ask them? If two people who found each other are happy, in love and want to be together, why the media and politician think does they know better. Take your hatred¹¹, your narrow minded views and negative publicity¹² elsewhere and let us find love “even if we find it on the internet.

凡和亚洲女孩约会的美国男人，都目击过美国女人眼里的愤怒，这就是美国女人对亚洲女孩的嫉妒与偏见。

这种模式的优势是：美国女人在性魅力方面无法与亚洲人匹配，美国女人感到恐慌，甚至一些人单纯地认为亚洲人在抢他们的男人。这些当然也有点道理。

如果我们时常出入美国俱乐部，亚洲女孩就可能会在卫生间被美国女人恐吓，我女朋友就有过此经历。与此同时，亚洲俱乐部在美国兴起。在亚洲俱乐部，美国女人 也是受欢迎的，在亚洲俱乐部，我从来没有见过一个美国女人被亚洲女孩恐吓的现象。亚洲人的天性并不会这样做。在这些俱乐部的人，通常都是些亚洲女孩和美国 男人。

他们在菲律宾相遇，并结婚了，然后与他们的丈夫来到美国。因此，在俱乐部你会碰到已婚的亚洲女人。如若你把亚洲女孩当作是那种经常出入酒吧的不良女人时，你可能最终会遇到一些不忠的女人。

正因为不忠，菲律宾女孩被美国女人烙上娼妓的烙印。而如果这种情况发生在美国女人身上，她们便不必承受此骂名。 两种行为文化一对比，伪善就显露出来了。

亚洲交友配对网站在整个网络世界兴起了。一些网站试着用亚洲女孩的性感来吸引点击率。然而，确实存在一些亚洲女孩寻求一段真挚的感情。

亚洲女孩极具魅力，美国男人会被她们的行为举止而着迷。男人梦想着有一个妻子，她会想着如何取悦他，对他的爱和为家所作的努力而感恩，而这些，他们只有在亚洲的文化中能够感受得到。

你将听到美国男人把这种价值观称为传统价值观，因为曾经一度，这种价值观与美国家庭息息相关。

那时，这些男人很幸福，竭尽地满足妻子需要的一切，也不曾有去别处寻求刺激的想法。

很多年前，男女间的化学反应曾经在美国风靡一时，但最终在美国消失，没落在女权运动中。

为什么菲律宾女人想嫁给异国的人呢？对于“这些女人想过得好一些”之说，我不想去争论这点。或许这是事实。我所要争论的是，大多数女人，无论来自哪个国家 都想嫁出去，过更好的生活。其次，不论你是否把问题看得消极，你都是伪善的。在美国的大多数女人，在论断其他国家的女士时需要先反省一下。除了想拥有更好 的生活外，大多数亚洲女士想要更好的待遇。

在美国，大多数男人并不指望有个女人可以服伺他，愿意取悦他，并爱那个真实的他。但若一个亚洲女孩这么做了，他欣赏她也就不足为奇了。

对亚洲女孩来说，男人不需要太有钱或看起来像个影视明星，她们只希望他们能对她们好，能一直爱她们就够了。它就像是以尊重与爱为轴的旋转木马。她想取悦他，他爱她的取悦，并且她喜欢他向她展示自己的爱。。。

以上所有的话，所作的陈述与我的观察都又例外的情况，这是毫无疑问的。每个国家都又坏人。不可否认，一些女人嫁到美国只是为了钱或是拿到一张免费的绿卡。

如果几个例子就对这些标准给出了定义，那么在美国取得结婚执照本该有严重警告。不管一对夫妇是在网上认识的或是在附近的教会，这些丑闻和虐待，你也有份。

在“怎样遇到一个女人，又怎样跟她结婚”这个问题上，能给出建议的文化专家只是美国。“还有哪个国家离婚率比它高的呢？

菲律宾及远东国家反对网上交友配对网站。因为那样是违反法律的。他们的法律在这我就不引证了，但它牵扯到道德的问题。再次又与伪善有关！

我着手写这篇文章意在阐述为什么许多美国女人轻视亚洲女孩。我说的不是所有的美国女人，但确实有非常多。并却这种歧视也不会消失。无论是媒体，政治等方面都表现得很明显，确实是发生在他们自己的国家。

人啊，他们已然忘记，自己也是成对的。为什么不问问他们呢？如果两个人觉得他们在一起能开心，并且相爱，希望在一起，为什么媒体和政治家觉得他们会比当事 人更了解呢。把你的敌意，狭隘的思想观念和消极的公众价值观通通都收起来吧，让我们找到真爱，即使是在网上寻求的爱。

1 wrath   

n.愤怒，愤慨，暴怒

参考例句：

• His silence marked his wrath. 他的沉默表明了他的愤怒。
• The wrath of the people is now aroused. 人们被激怒了。

2 stereotypical   

n.常规

参考例句：

• Personas should be typical and believable, but not stereotypical. 人物角色应该是典型和可信赖的，但不是一成不变的。 来自About Face 3交互设计精髓
• Anything could be stereotypical, so I guess it could be criticism. 任何东西都可以变的老套，所以我猜那就是一种批评。 来自互联网

3 mingle   

vt.使混合，使相混；vi.混合起来；相交往

参考例句：

• If we mingle with the crowd,we should not be noticed.如果我们混在人群中，就不会被注意到。
• Oil will not mingle with water.油和水不相融。

4 stigma   

n.耻辱，污名；(花的)柱头

参考例句：

• Being an unmarried mother used to carry a social stigma.做未婚母亲在社会上曾是不光彩的事。
• The stigma of losing weighed heavily on the team.失败的耻辱让整个队伍压力沉重。

5 hypocrisy   

n.伪善，虚伪

参考例句：

• He railed against hypocrisy and greed.他痛斥伪善和贪婪的行为。
• He accused newspapers of hypocrisy in their treatment of the story.他指责了报纸在报道该新闻时的虚伪。

6 appreciation   

n.评价；欣赏；感谢；领会，理解；价格上涨

参考例句：

• I would like to express my appreciation and thanks to you all.我想对你们所有人表达我的感激和谢意。
• I'll be sending them a donation in appreciation of their help.我将送给他们一笔捐款以感谢他们的帮助。

7 myriad   

adj.无数的；n.无数，极大数量

参考例句：

• They offered no solution for all our myriad problems.对于我们数不清的问题他们束手无策。
• I had three weeks to make a myriad of arrangements.我花了三个星期做大量准备工作。

8 license   

n.执照，许可证，特许；v.许可，特许

参考例句：

• The foreign guest has a license on the person.这个外国客人随身携带执照。
• The driver was arrested for having false license plates on his car.司机由于使用假车牌而被捕。

9 imprinted   

v.盖印（imprint的过去式与过去分词形式）

参考例句：

• The terrible scenes were indelibly imprinted on his mind. 那些恐怖场面深深地铭刻在他的心中。
• The scene was imprinted on my mind. 那个场面铭刻在我的心中。 来自《简明英汉词典》

10 condone   

v.宽恕；原谅

参考例句：

• I cannot condone the use of violence.我不能宽恕使用暴力的行为。
• I will not condone a course of action that will lead us to war.我绝不允许任何导致战争的行为。

11 hatred   

n.憎恶，憎恨，仇恨

参考例句：

• He looked at me with hatred in his eyes.他以憎恨的眼光望着我。
• The old man was seized with burning hatred for the fascists.老人对法西斯主义者充满了仇恨。

12 publicity   

n.众所周知，闻名；宣传，广告

参考例句：

• The singer star's marriage got a lot of publicity.这位歌星的婚事引起了公众的关注。
• He dismissed the event as just a publicity gimmick.他不理会这件事，只当它是一种宣传手法。