iPod if you have that ready to go so that youcould really have him after being out with his big friends and their family andeverybody. And if you’re throwing that part, make sure that you invite thepeople that are closest to him, and you could certainly, if you can, maybe makea tribute video about that year ofhis life or, you know, whatever part of it you could and really make a specialevening for him, but make sure there’s thecherry on top, if you will, when you get home. 

 

 

Now if you’re going to have a party that’sjust you and him, then yeah, pull out all stops, really make a nice meal ororder a nice meal, if you can take him to his favorite restaurant, but give himsomething to look forward to. I really like the idea of wearing somethingunderneath your clothes that can teasehim a little bit and really get him excited. Men are very visual, so it giveshim something to really fanaticize about until you get home. And then don'tdisappoint when you get home, maybe have, you know, the rose petals thrown allover the bed or if that's too expensive, maybe just have some nice, you know,bottle of something on ice, waiting and the music playing from a great playlistof all your special songs together and have the candles, and really maybe dosomething different for him. Ask him if he has any kind of fantasy that he’dlike to live out. Try doing that. Definitely just make sure that it’s all abouthim, it's his special night. And I’m sure he’ll have a great birthday.