公众人物毕业演讲第187期:桑德伯格2012哈佛商学院(12)(在线收听

   We need to start talking about how women underestimate their abilities

  我们要讨论 女性相比男性
  compared to men and for women
  为什么会低估自己的能力
  but not men
  而且和男性不同
  success and likeability are negatively correlated
  对于女性 成功和受欢迎程度是反向相关的
  That means that as a woman is more successful in your workplaces
  这意味着一个女性在事业上越成功
  she will be less liked
  她就会越不受人喜爱
  This means that women
  这意味着女性
  need a different form of management and mentorship
  需要另一种形式的管理和辅导
  a different form of sponsorship and encouragement
  另一种形式的支持和鼓励
  and some protection
  甚至一些保护
  in some ways, more than men
  在某些方面 要比男性有更多的保护
  And there aren't enough senior women out there to do it
  而且现在有资历做这些的女性还太少
  so it falls upon the men who are graduating today
  所以在座的男性毕业生们要和女性毕业生们
  just as much or more as the women
  一起肩负起这个责任 甚至更多
  not just to talk about gender
  不仅仅讨论性别
  but to help these women succeed
  而且要帮助女性取得成功
  When they hear a woman is really great at her job but not liked
  当听到一个工作上很优秀的女性不为人爱戴
  take a deep breath and ask why
  深呼吸一下 问问自己这是为什么
  We need to start talking openly about
  我们需要公开地探讨
  the flexibility all of us need to have both a job and a life
  我们都需要的灵活机制来平衡工作和生活
  A couple of weeks ago in an interview I said that
  几周前我接受了一个采访
  I leave the office at 5:30 p.m. to have dinner with my children
  我说我会5点半离开公司去和我的小孩吃晚饭
  And I was shocked at the press coverage
  而媒体报道让我震惊了
  One of my friends said
  我的一个朋友说
  she wasn't sure I couldn't get more headlines 她不确定 就算我用斧子砍人
  if I had murdered someone with an ax
  是否能上一样多的头条
  I told her I wasn't really interested in trying that
  我告诉她我对砍人没兴趣
  But this showed me
  不过这让我明白
  this is an unresolved issue for all of us
  对于我们所有人不管是男人还是女人
  for men and women
  这是个未解决的问题
  Otherwise
  要不是这样
  why would everyone write so much about it
  为什么大家会对此有那么多评论
  And maybe, most importantly
  也许 最重要的是
  we need to start talking about how fewer women than men
  我们应该开始讨论为什么只有少数的女性
  even from places like HBS, most likely even in this class
  即便来自HBS 即便是你们这届毕业生
  aspire to the very top jobs
  渴望坐上最高的领导职位
  We will not close the leadership gap
  我们无法弥补领导岗位上的差距
  until we close the professional ambition gap
  除非我们先弥补职业抱负上的差距
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