谈恋爱别嫉妒-对自己好(1)

 谈恋爱别嫉妒

 

Treat Yo' Self

 

对自己好

 

 

 

"When you're in a good place yourself - thriving in the workplace, living a harmonious¹ home life, goodhealth, experiencing solid spirituality - your heart naturally expands,allowing you to let go of bitterness and jealousy².

 

当你自身状态很好时--事业风生水起、家庭生活和谐、身体健康、精神纯净--那么你的心胸自然宽广，让你忘掉痛苦和嫉妒。

 

Living your best life helpsyou stay open and understanding to the ups and downs of the human condition.

 

过着最好的生活能让你保持开朗，理解自身状况的起起伏伏。

 

This compassion³ for yourself and others makes you less competitive.

 

对自己和他人的这种同情会降低你的竞争力。

 

Accept yourself the way you are and do things for yourself that make you genuinelyhappy and fulfilled.

 

接受本真的自己，为自己做事，这样你才会真正的感到开心、充实。

 

-Anjhula Mya Singh Bais, Ph.D., InternationalPsychology

 

--国际心理学博士Anjhula Mya Singh Bais

1 harmonious   

adj.和睦的，调和的，和谐的，协调的

参考例句：

• Their harmonious relationship resulted in part from their similar goals.他们关系融洽的部分原因是他们有着相似的目标。
• The room was painted in harmonious colors.房间油漆得色彩调和。

2 jealousy   

n.妒忌，嫉妒，猜忌

参考例句：

• Some women have a disposition to jealousy.有些女人生性爱妒忌。
• I can't support your jealousy any longer.我再也无法忍受你的嫉妒了。

3 compassion   

n.同情，怜悯

参考例句：

• He could not help having compassion for the poor creature.他情不自禁地怜悯起那个可怜的人来。
• Her heart was filled with compassion for the motherless children.她对于没有母亲的孩子们充满了怜悯心。