TED演讲：试验 排除错误和万能神力(10)
Until then, until then I'm going to keep banging on about trial and error and why we should abandon the God complex. 到那时候，到那时候，我会继续讨论测试和排除错误这个话题，以及为什么我们需要抛弃万能神力的态
TED演讲：试验 排除错误和万能神力(11)
It is dangerous for patients to recover from heart attacks at home. 让心脏病人在家康复是危险的。 They should be in hospital. 他们应该留在医院里。 And there's this uproar, and all the doctors start pounding the table and saying
TED演讲：试验 排除错误和万能神力(12)
And you sometimes need to be shocked out of that. 而有的时候我们需要把这种感觉抖掉。 Now I'm not going to pretend that this is easy. It isn't easy. It's incredibly painful. 现在我不想假装这是件容易的事情。这并不容易
TED演讲：解读羞耻(1)
I'm going to tell you a little bit about my TEDxHouston Talk. 我要跟大家讲一点关于我TEDxHouston演讲的事。 I woke up the morning after I gave that talk with the worst vulnerability hangover of my life. 在演讲之后的那个早上，是
TED演讲：解读羞耻(2)
And she goes, Uh... no. 然后她说：呃，不记得。 Of course, the only thing I could say at that point was, Yeah, me neither. Yeah -- me neither. 所以当然了，我也只能说：哦，我也是...我也是。 And I'm thinking to myself, Br
TED演讲：解读羞耻(3)
The first is: vulnerability is not weakness. 第一件事，脆弱不是弱点。 And that myth is profoundly dangerous. 并且这种错误理解非常危险。 Let me ask you honestly -- and I'll give you this warning, I'm trained as a therapist, so
TED演讲：解读羞耻(4)
What would you like for me to talk about? There's three big answers. 那你们想让我讲什么？有三个主要的答案。 This is mostly, to be honest with you, from the business sector: innovation, creativity and change. 这些老实讲，主要是
TED演讲：解读羞耻(5)
And then I hear, Vulnerability TED! I turn around, I go, Hi. 然后我听到：脆弱TED！ 我转过身，说：嗨。 She's right here and she said, You're the shame researcher who had the breakdown. 她就在这儿，然后她说：你就是那个崩
TED演讲：解读羞耻(6)
But in surviving this last year, I was reminded of a cardinal rule -- not a research rule, 但是在过去一年的挣扎中，我被一个基本守则所提醒着--不是做研究的守则， but a moral imperative from my upbringing -- you've got t
TED演讲：解读羞耻(7)
We heard a brilliant simple solution to not killing people in surgery, which is, have a checklist. 我们听说了一个简单有效的方法，来降低手术中病人的死亡率，就是准备一个事项清单。 You can't fix that problem withou
TED演讲：解读羞耻(8)
No, it is. You know why this place is amazing? 不，它就是。为什么这地方很神奇？ Because very few people here are afraid to fail. 因为这里几乎没有人 是害怕失败的。 And no one who gets on the stage, so far that I've seen
TED演讲：解读羞耻(9)
I know those things that happened to you growing up. 我知道你从小到大的糗事。 I know you don't think that you're pretty, smart, talented or powerful enough. 我知道你也清楚自己不够漂亮，或者不够聪明或者不够有才或者
TED演讲：解读羞耻(10)
The other thing you need to know about shame is it's absolutely organized by gender. 关于羞耻还需要知道的另一件事，就是它是完全被性别所导向的。 If shame washes over me and washes over Chris, it's going to feel the same. 当
TED演讲：解读羞耻(11)
Shame, for women, is this web of unobtainable, conflicting, competing expectations about who we're supposed to be. 羞耻，对于女人，是一张网，是一张由难以实现的、冲突的、抵触的期望所织成的关于理想的自己的网。
TED演讲：解读羞耻(12)
But he really listens -- because that's all we need -- I'll show you a guy who's done a lot of work. 而是他能真切的聆听 -- 因为那就是我们所需要的 -- 那我就能给你找到真正能干的男人。 Shame is an epidemic in our cult
