Have youever acted politeandformal with awomanon thefirst date? Youmayhavefakedafew smiles andlaughedatallherjokes, tryingtomakeherlikeyou. It may benice, butwomen also thinkit'swussy. Shemay not seeit, buttrustme when Isaythat, shesees right through...
Goto amovieorconcert. Playagame.Do someexercise. In thiscase,yourefocusingyourmotivation on somethingdesirable, rather thansomethingstressful. So if you canimmerseyourself inpositive activities, youllshiftyourmotivation away from the focuson thestres...
WhenIask people 'whatdo youreally want?' theanswerIusuallyget issomethinglike, Well, I don't know, orsomething generallike, Well,IwishI had abetter relationship, IwishI couldstartmyown business, IwishI hadmore money, IwishI could bemore successful. T...
People don't want relationships, theydon'twant to bethinner, Everythingthat youreally wantin yourlife comes downtoone thing: youwantsome kind ofchange inhowyoufeel, orwhatIcalledachangeofstate, thestateofmindorbody you're in thatmomentoftime, weallwa...
Thinkabout it. Theonly reasonyouwant more money, youdon't want little piecesofpaper withpicturesofdeceased notable,do you? Ofcourse not. You want money 'causewhatyouthinkit wouldgiveyou. Youthinkit wouldgiveyoumore freedom, more fun,or theabilitytogi...
Everythinghappensforthebest, mymothersaid wheneverIfaceddisappointment. Ifyoucancarryon， onedaysomethinggoodwillhappen. Andyou'llrealizethat itwouldn'thavehappened ifnotforthatpreviousdisappointment. 每当我遇到挫折时， 母亲就会说： 一...
Whenyou weregrowing up, didn'tyou have aparentthattoldyou, Hey, look,if you aredepressed, go do something. Whydid thatwork? Because when yougo do something, youchangethewayyoumove, youchangethewayyoubreathe, youchangewhat you'refocusing on, or what y...
Somebody saysI want to getmarried, theywanna getmarried because theythinkof what wouldgivethem, or I want arelationship, theythinkits gonnagive them acertainkind offeeling. Thats whatdrives allof ourbehaviors. 有人说我想要结婚， 他们想结婚...
I'velearnedtocondition myself so thatfrustration creates excitement, you knowwhy?Cause if I'mfrustrated, IknowI'maboutto have abreakthrough. If I getconfusedaboutsomething, myresponseto that is, hey,I'mabouttolearn something. Cause mybrainissearching...
Luckandopportunity also playanimportant roleinsuccess - sometimes thingsjustclick due toforces outsideyourcontrol. You canimproveyourluck bymakingasmany strong personal contacts as youcanandsharingwhat youhave toincreasetheirluckandopportunities. 运气...
